Live Positive Way

It’s always easy to tackle the people who criticize us on our face.  If we need we can give an explanation or just pass on a sweet smile and ignore them.  But the ones who talk about us in our absence are more dangerous.  They can modify the facts as per their wish and can bad-mouth us.  Even if we are super positive, still at times we may feel low if we come to know someone backbiting us.  But we cannot change them and we cannot do what they are doing to us.  Hence just keep cool and tell yourself “No one can stop the Sun from shining, it may hide under the clouds for a while but will shine bright once it’s out. I am like that Sun”.

We are not here to please everyone around us!  We are here to evolve ourselves! If someone not able to understand your good intentions and feel jealous of you it’s their problem, not yours.  It’s your choice to stay happy and enjoy life. Just keep doing it and ignore those who are always there to hamper your happiness.  At the end whoever stay happy and wish happiness for everyone can only achieve in life.  The ones backbiting others can never have peace nor happiness since their heart is filled with grief and greed.  We can only feel pity for them.  Wish they too understand and enjoy life as we do!

Hey you, once again step out and keep your good work going…..!

Stay Positive & Stay Strong……!!

Live Positive Way

Hindi - you may wonder what's its relation with positivity!  It has in my life.

When I was so young I was interested in all art forms. Music, dance, painting, handwork everything..... Being in a middle class family and with father's financial constraints was not able to learn anything.  When I requested my dad for some extracurricular classes he just put forth an option of learning Hindi since it can benefit me in future.  As it was forcefully enforsed initially I was not interested in learning this language.  But since my childhood I always believed whatever happens is for my good and hence I started learning it.  Slowly got interest in it, thanks to my Hindi teachers.

As years passby, I started connecting all my favorite hobbies like music, dance to Hindi.  Singing Hindi songs for my friends and learning Bollywood dances by myself, I ended up doing stage performances in school, college, my office and still it continues...

When I landed in the Capital City for my job, I was by then fluent in Hindi and was easily accepted by my colleagues.  Hindi language has earned me appreciations for being a good singer, got me many good friends, some muh-bola bhais and many happiness........

I now think like a North Indian woman.  Baingan-ka-barta, methi parata, paneer sabjiyan have become a part of my daily cooking recipes.  Garba, bangra and dandiya flows in my blood.  Star plus, Colors, B4U music has created a prominent space in my heart.  Many a times my husband suspects of transmigration of a North Indian soul into my body.   

Today I dont feel bad for not able to pursue proper music & dance classes and when someone asks me what's my mother's tongue I used to tell them I have both mother tongue Tamil and father tongue Hindi.  Its always up to us to decide anything in either ways, positive or negative. If we always choose positive way of accepting things we can stay content and at peace and happiness continues......